Gratitude on High: An Ostomy Patient’s Journey of Faith, Community, and Black History

By Tonya Kelly

As I drove down East Main Street in Reynoldsburg, Ohio, time stopped.

There it was my banner hanging proudly among so many incredible community members being honored for Black History Month. I pulled over, overwhelmed by emotion.

Tears flowed freely: tears of gratitude, tears of healing, tears of triumph. These last two years have been a journey I could have never imagined, and in that moment, all I could do was appreciate my new life.

To be back in my community, teaching, tutoring, doing what I love, surrounded by love, support, and blessings this moment means everything.

There were moments on this new journey, when my body felt fragile, when uncertainty felt louder than hope. But my faith carried me. Living life as an ostomy(ileostomy) patient has reshaped my understanding of strength, resilience, and purpose. My ostomy literally saved my life, but it also gave me a deeper calling: to live boldly, to serve openly, and to remind others that life after ostomy surgery is not only possible it can be powerful, joyful, and fulfilling.

My community carried me. Organizations like UOAA and Color of Gastrointestinal Illnesses (COGI) reminded me that I was never alone. Through education, shared experiences, and unwavering support, I found strength in knowing that ostomy (ileostomy) patients are not defined by what we’ve lost but by how boldly we live afterward.

Seeing my banner represented on East Main Street alongside other nominated Reynoldsburg residents was deeply humbling. Black History Month is about honoring the past, but it is also about celebrating the living, breathing history we create every day through service, advocacy, and community.

My daddy would be so proud.

I do this for him.
I do this for my family.
I do this for my community.
I do this for every ostomy patient who needs to see someone living fully, loving deeply, and standing tall visible and unashamed.
I am Black history.
I am an ostomy patient.
I am grateful.

Thanks to Tonya for her leadership and passion for the ostomy community. Seeing the need for ostomy support and supplies in her community she founded Ostomy Warriors a Columbus, OH-based local support and free donation hub dedicated to bringing awareness, dignity, and practical help to ostomy patients and their families. For World Ostomy Day 2025 she organized an Ostomy Awareness recognition at the Ohio State House where she received an official proclamation.

Ostomy Warriors provide access to donated ostomy supplies for individuals experiencing financial hardship, insurance gaps, or unexpected medical transitions. Beyond supplies, the Ostomy Board offers education, peer support, and encouragement for those learning to navigate life as a new ostomy patient. Our mission is rooted in community care meeting people where they are, reducing stigma, and ensuring no one feels alone on their ostomy journey.

Contact:  www.facebook.com/ostomywarriors
614-512-6511,  Ostomywarriors25@gmail.com